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11.24.2013

The Farewell



The Tippetts Family


The Stucki Family


The Rhoton Family


The love of my life.
no sike.
its just madi.
hahahaha.
representin' the Wogksch Family


The Gooches, Conner (My MTC Buddy) & Erica

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its here, its here!!!!

Well people! Only ten more days until I head off to the MTC to begin my mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day saints. How lucky am I??

This weekend just so happened to be my farewell. IT WAS CRAZY. But wonderful. And i loved every second of it. Except the pre-talk part of course. I really dislike that feeling before you stand in front of five hundred million people (exaggeration sorry) and feel like you're going to throw up your so nervous. No? Just me? k cool.

But the feeling you get after you sit down and think 

HALLELUJAH I DID IT

is the bomb. 

So thanks to all my family and friends who were there to support. I'm sorry if i missed getting a picture with you. But know i appreciate your being there, and i love you SO much. I also realized that there were a couple people i missed talking to at the church...and i have yet to see. So heres a big SHOUT OUT TO YOU. I love you. You are awesome. It was a busy day, but i do recognize and cherish the great friendships we have built and my life is forever changed because of it.

My friends and family are awesome.
simply awesome.

With that being said, its been a long day, so here is the jist of my farewell talk, give or take a few ums and random remarks/last words at the pulpit. Happy Holidays, and Enjoy your thanksgiving!


      With Thanksgiving quickly approaching here this week.  I get to speak to you today on one of what I believe is the most important topics to remember in church… and that is “Recognizing and giving thanks for our blessings from God.” What better subject to speak about right before Thanksgiving and right before I get to leave to share the gospel with the people of Washington DC. We are ALL soooo very blessed.
Now giving thanks seems like an easy enough task to fulfill. But when is the last time you sat down and thanked Heavenly Father for all that you have been given, rather than just asking him for more?
I recently read a quote that said, “What if you woke up tomorrow with only the things you thanked God for today?”  It made me really stop and think about it.  How many things did you thank God for yesterday?  And yet…you still have those marvelous blessings today.  Do we even realize all that we have been blessed with.
Two years ago I was having some health issues and had to be hospitalized.  It was a scary and stressful time.  I had never thought to be thankful for my good health.  I think that happens far to often that we take for granted many things…until perhaps they are gone or taken away.  Then suddenly we realize their importance.  In D&C 78:19 The Lord has promised, “He who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious”
We should be thankful for the wonderful blessings that are ours and for the tremendous opportunities we have. We can be thankful to our parents, family, friends, and teachers.  We should express appreciation to everyone who has assisted us in any way.  The Lord said, “Thou shalt thank the Lord  thy God in all things.”  All things means just that:  good things, difficult things - not just some things. He has commanded us to be grateful because He knows being grateful will make us happy. Gratitude is an uplifting feeling.  People are generally happier when they have gratitude in their hearts.  We cannot be bitter, resentful, or mean spirited when we are grateful.
I think that really puts things into perspective. I believe it is a personal choice to be grateful.  “Nothing comes from luck or coincidence, it is all by the hand of God.” We must recognize the blessings our Heavenly Father gives to us.  Most importantly we should strive to remember them. Don’t be quick to forget all that you have been blessed with. Because there really is SO much.
President Henry B. Eyring shares a story when one particular day he had realized how much he had been blessed with. Just as he was about to get into bed from a long day at work he heard a distinct voice, not of his own, say “I’m not giving you these experiences for yourself, write them down.” He soon realized he was supposed to record his experiences for his children to someday read in the future.  And more specifically how he had seen the hand of God in his life blessing  him and his family.  So they could remember these experiences.  Someday when they would need them.
President Eyring said he wrote down a few lines every day for years. No matter how tired or worn out he was, he would ponder the question “Have I seen the hand of God reaching out to touch me or my family today?” as he wrote down his answers, night after night, something began to happen. He said “I would see evidence of what God had done for us that I had not recognized in the busy moments of the day. More gratitude began to grow in my heart. My testimony began to grow. I became ever more certain that our Heavenly Father hears and answers my prayers.”
Now that his children are all grown, he says they often read and talk about some of the divine experiences their Father had.  By first recognizing these blessings and then remembering them they are more aware of, and grateful for their many blessings.  Not only did this journal of blessings strengthen the testimony of President Eyring but It has helped his children and posterity come closer to god as well.
Writing and keeping record of the hand of God in your life is one ingenious tool to remembering, and being forever grateful for your relationship with your Father in Heaven. It isn’t easy to remember every spiritual experience, every warning, thought or protection in our daily lives which we have been blessed with.  We are always so busy or in a hurry we don’t recognize or remember to thank our Father in Heaven.  If you sit down each day and ponder your day you will be surprised because there are SO MANY reasons to be thankful. Keeping an ongoing list or journal of these experiences provides.. Evidence, so to speak, and a constant reminder of Gods love for you personally, and individually.
It is said, that the challenge to not only recognize but REMEMBER has always been hardest for those who are blessed abundantly. The book of Mormon is proof of this. Throughout the book of Mormon it was easy for the people to feel their blessings were granted not by a loving God on who they were dependent, but by their own powers. In Helaman 12:1-2 we read….
“1 (And) …thus we can behold how false, and also the unsteadiness of the hearts of the children of men; yea, we can see that the Lord in his great infinite goodness doth bless and prosper those who put their trust in him.

 2 Yea, and we may see at the very time when he doth prosper his people, yea, in the increase of their fields, their flocks and their herds, and in gold, and in silver, and in all manner of precious things of every kind and art; sparing their lives, and delivering them out of the hands of their enemies; softening the hearts of their enemies that they should not declare wars against them; yea, and in fine, doing all things for the welfare and happiness of his people; yea, then is the time that they do harden their hearts, and do forget the Lord their God, and do trample under their feet the Holy One—yea, and this because of their ease, and their exceedingly great prosperity.”

We see this in the world today as well…
How quick to be lifted up in pride; how quick to boast; to do all manner of iniquity; and how slow to remember the Lord their God…

Sadly however, prosperity is not the only reason people forget God. It can also be hard to remember him when our lives go badly. When we struggle in life’s tragedies and trials, the enemy of our souls can send his evil message that there is no God and that if there is he does not care about us. Then, it can be hard for the Holy Ghost to help us remember the lifetime of blessings the Lord has given us.
Elder Eyring suggests that there is a simple cure for this terrible ‘malady’ of forgetting God and his blessings.
It just so happens to be the same thing the Savior promised to his disciples, when they were concerned to know how they would possibly endure when he was no longer with them. It is a gift that is extended to all of us.. It is the gift of the Holy Ghost. It is promised that the Holy Ghost will teach all things and bring all things to remembrance.
The key to this is receiving the Holy Ghost as a companion. It is the Holy Ghost who helps us see what God has done for us and it is the Holy Ghost who can help those who we serve see what God has done for them.
God asks us all that we give thanks to him for whatever blessings we receive. We can do this through thoughtful prayer. Thoughtful meaning -  don’t become mechanical, repeating the same words every day without the intent to truly talk to him, give thanks, as a gift of the heart to God.
The prophet Joseph Smith said at one time, that one of the greatest sins of which Latter Day Saints would be guilty is the sin of ingratitude. I bet nobody here has ever thought of THAT as a ‘great sin.’
We should all try a little bit harder to devote more of our prayers to expressions of Gratitude and Thanksgiving for blessings already received. We enjoy sooo much. We should all put more thought in our prayers and keeping journals as an opportunity to give thanks to be more grateful for all that we have.
To be happy and avoid misery, we must have a grateful heart. We have seen in our lives the connection between gratitude and happiness. You won’t find a truly ‘grateful’ person leading a miserable life. A grateful heart will appreciate what they have been given, because moping around about what you don’t have, is a perfectly good waste of what you do already have. Don’t take good things for granted. We all have a tendency to not recognize a good thing until it is gone. We don’t realize how grateful we should have been when we had them.
Most of all it is sometimes hard for us to be sufficiently grateful for the greatest gifts we receive: the birth of Jesus Christ, his atonement, the promise of the resurrection, the opportunity to enjoy eternal life with our families, the restoration of the gospel and the priesthood keys that have been restored to the earth.
So many people today have not heard our exciting message about the restoration of the gospel. So many people are lost in the sense… they have no sure idea of who they are, what their value is as an individual and where they are going. We are so blessed as members of the church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints to have this knowledge and guidance in our lives.
Nothing is more important.
I’ve come to notice that as I serve and care about others, I am helping God bless their lives and in turn I see my own blessings more closely.
I’m grateful for the opportunity I have to share this gospel knowledge every day for the next eighteen months. I couldn’t think of a better way to show my gratitude for my religion and my beliefs than sharing it with others. Just in this short time of receiving my mission call, I have felt the impact of the Holy Ghost so much more strongly in my life. The gospel principles I have been taught my whole life are so much more real and meaningful to me now.
The opportunity I have had to go through the temple and the blessings I have received are a gift more valuable than anything I could have ever imagined.  We are so blessed  to have the beautiful St. George temple right down the street.  I can’t wait to share what I know and believe with the people in Washington DC who are willing and ready to hear the message of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
I want to leave you all with a challenge to begin writing down what you are grateful for, and look back at It often. Recognize each blessing that comes into your life daily and remember it.  You will become even more grateful and happier in your life.

10.01.2013

Don't Pass 'Em UP

I've tried this new thing called having an (incredibly) open mind......

IT IS AWESOME.

My mom is reading some weird book, but she told me the basics of it is "To have peace with yourself you must act on all impressions. If you do not act on impressions and continue throughout your day, you will not have peace of mind. Therefore you are puting yourself in a box."

Weird book right? But its true. I'm pretty sure every single person on this earth even YOU gets little impressions throughout the day. "I should do that.." "I should say hi to her.." "I should shoot him a text..." But we ignore them because they are inconvienient or we do not know what will come of it. Well, my track record has turned out great with acting on impressions! Because even if i never know what will come of it... it somehow influences my life. I feel at peace, and it gives me something more to think about.

Impression Numero Uno: Lady walks into PFPV (My Work) She asked when it got cold around here. SOO we talked about weather. I had an impression to ask her where she was from, i shook it off at first, but of course... I could hear my mom telling me YOURE PUTING YOURSELF IN A BOX. Sooo i did. Turns out shes from the glorious east coast SOUTH CAROLINA. Why on earth did she wind up in Utah??? We talked about all the amazing things to explore back east, i told her i was moving to Washington DC here in a couple months. She asked why? I told her for a mission. And for the 6787654567876545678 time i got that look of "Like james bond or...?" So i added, LDS Mission, for my church. You could see her face was a little bit puzzled. But we continued on our conversation. She was really nice and had a family. Nothing more came from my experience in talking with her about the church. But it planted a seed because guess what??? SHE KNOWS WHAT A MORMON MISSIONARY IS NOW. And she left a five dolla tip so holla.

Impression Numero Dos: Sit by the Loud Rowdy Kids in the back of Youth Meeting ;)
Yes. I was asked to speak a little bit to the youth of my ward with the Elders and my dad on sunday. The WHOLE TIME there was this couple boys sitting in the back being so obnoxious. I could hear them laughing and talking and poking at eachother and i was sitting clear in the front! Silly boys... so the next half of the meeting i decided, hey, i'll go sit next to 'em. So i did. And their faces? PRICELESS. (I hope they are reading this hahaha!) There wasn't even room for me so i pulled up a chair as close as i could and smiled at them. I continued to raise my hand and make comments every five minutes or so, because everytime i did, all eyes went to the back corner and the boys all went silent. I even got a few of them to put their phones up in the front and pay attention imagine that??!! I told them they would get something from it. I think they expected candy or something... i meant scriptural knowledge? And at the end of the lesson one of them looked at me and said... "Its blessings isnt it?" I smiled and he rolled his eyes. It was picture perfect. Gotta love them highschool boys getting blessings doncha? It was an awesome lesson. 
Afterwards, i did hold a really good conversation with a couple of them. I told them that it took me til my senior year to realize if you actually LISTEN TO YOUR SEMINARY TEACHER you will gain something. Weird right? They were amazed too. I don't know if i changed their opinion on serving a mission or even listening to seminary. But at least they know that I KNOW the church is true, and that I KNOW how much it has affected my life. Hopefully someday they will feel the same. Goes to show you can be a missionary and example even to the members of your ward! They are awesome (:

Impression Numero Tres: CAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL RANCH BBY
So me and my brother... well okay let me start over. MY BROTHER talked me into taking him to CAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL RANCH right before it closed last night. So, off we went. We were looking for some new 'Boots' and started talking to this kid that works there. He was a nice kid. And low and behold our topic of conversation turned into missions. I told him where i was going and etc. Said goodbye, didnt even catch his name. Well, this little experience actually turned on me. I think he was the one who had an impression he didn't pass up, and i gained immensly from it. I got a text in the middle of the night, it was from this kid. He mentioned i probably didnt know him and it may be weird that he was sending this, but he felt like he should send me these specific scriptures because they have helped him immensly within the church and in regards of serving a mission. They were right on key, exactly what i needed to hear. How cool is that?

I think what comes around goes around. Pray for experiences. And search them out throughout your day. Don't pass any up! You never know what can come from them, and you never know what you will find in return! Look at the little, simplest of experiences and blessings and apply them to your life. You will see differences in every situation. Its so cool who the Lord will bring into your life sometimes. Gods timing really is perfect. And people, they are awesome. Stay positive and love the little things.

Love you all! Have a fantastic Tuesday!

Sincerely Yours, Sister Madison Paige

8.29.2013

Called to Serve Part 4. HAHAHA SIKE.

Something kind of hit me today while working at the good 'ol PFPV.

So as you know school is back in play, so ALL the cute little highschool kids (as if i'm so old and mature hahaha) come into pizza factory to eat, get the good deals on student specials and what not (6 dolla, people, yes i'm advertising for my boss right now like why?) Anyways, all these new little sophomores and etc. come in with there friend groups, and they are happy and excited, and life is fairly easy right? wrong. HIGH SCHOOL IS HARD. Like not as hard as real life, paying your own bills and everything else, but I mean who you are in highschool is going to determine who you are for the rest of your life. Yes, there is always time for change, but all in all, you can't turn back time. And choices you make in highschool are going to influence you, and come back to you for the rest of your entire life. That is so mind blowing, because when you're eighteen you think you are indestructible. I thought the same thing.

So this group of girls comes up to the till, and this would be only kind of awkward if they were reading this right now but i'm going to continue anyways because it really hit me. And they were ordering and laughing and having a great time with their friends. The norm, whatever. And then one of them, that I recognized from one of her older siblings looked at me and said "HEY! Congrats on your mission call, thats so cool!" (or something of that nature) and i'm going to have to admit, i was totally blown away! I didn't even know these kids knew me! So I said thanks, you know 'i'm excited' *nervous laugh* and her friend says the same thing. 'Congrats, i follow you on instagram!'

BOOM THERE IT IS AGAIN.

These people follow me.

And i know you, readers, are like k so what?

Here is the thing. A lot of us make our decisions and think it only will effect ourselves. What i do is my decision and nobody can stop that. Well, unfortunately and fortunately, there are two beautiful gorgeous sophomores that follow me via social networking and know the choices and decisions that I am making. And I can't imagine how i would have felt if they knew I was partying and getting around and thinking 'hey, if shes doing it why can't i?' You don't even understand the surprise and the pure JOY I felt, when they congratulated me on my MISSION CALL. Because never in a million years was i expecting myself to go on a mission at nineteen. But i hope, and pray with all my heart that when they see MY name, they know that I am going out to serve the Lord. And i hope when they see me leave and serve my mission they think 'hey, if she's doing it, why can't I?'

Like I said, highschool is hard. And full of choices. I hope all those highschoolers find something they can strive to become, and they make the right ones. Sure, you learn from your mistakes, but stay on the right track and don't be afraid to become everything you've ever dreamed. I really hope me going on a mission, if anything, can be example to other young sisters. I mean if I can do it, why can't you?!

I am so excited to serve. Sure its nerve wrecking, I mean I'm moving across the United States of America without a single soul that i've ever met! But I am the happiest I've ever been! I am so at peace with my decisions and know that God will help me along the way.

On the flip side however, You don't have to wear a badge, and leave your family, and move across the country or the world to be an example. All girls need these days is a good role model. I have mine! For sure. And I can tell you right now MILEY CYRUS and NICKI MINAJ are NOT THEM. Thats all we ever see online and on the news. They are EVERYWHERE.

"Women of God can never be
like women of the world. The
world has enough women
who are tough; we need
women who are tender. There
are enough women who are
coarse; we need women who
are kind. There are enough
women who are rude; we
need women who are refined.
We have enough women of
fame and fortune; we need
more women of faith. We
have enough greed; we need
more goodness. We have
enough vanity; we need more
virtue. We have enough
popularity; We need more 
purity."
-Sister Margaret Nadauld

I couldn't agree with ^^ HER anymore. (I found that in a scripture glue in *fist pump*) I always have to stop and think about that when I set goals and think about who I want to become. I want to be a mother, and a wife. And an example. I want to stand out NOT for wearing the least clothes or having the most rugged, OUT THERE, crude language. I want to be the women described in that quote. The world needs more of that. The most outstanding women in my life, that i look up to most, are women of that nature. I hope when girls are in highschool they can find a role model like I did. I hope they don't have to be the girl willing to try anything, to get attention and feel wanted. Because anyone is better then that, and deserves better then that.

As I watch family and friends grow up I know anything I say to them isn't going to change their mind. Everyone experiences life for themselves. But I hope that my happiness and my decisions can influence them for the better, because coming closer to my savior, and making the decisions that i have, progressing through the church has brought SO much more joy into my life. I'm not lost, i'm not confused. I know who i am, where i came from, and what i am worth. And i hope they know what they can become. Thats all!

Have a fantastic day folks, i love you all!